Maybe it is just me….

Posted: December 9, 2012 in behaviour, emotions, friends, life, opinion, parent, questions
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Well, it has been so long since I even logged into WordPress!! Was taken aback by all the interface changes!! That is how long!!! :)

It was nice to see an award when I did log in!!! Been 5 years since I registered it seems!! Wow!! Just a few days back I thought time flies – A turned 8. I think it again today – Didn’t realise it has been 5 years since I registered here!!

Life has not changed much but it has too!! I start afresh yet again in a way tomorrow. Nervous about this yet tired of new beginnings. I just wish I had no more… I am at a weird place now. I want change but I don’t want it either. I feel lonely yet think am too set in my own ways that I can’t think of adapting to being with someone either….

A has been the one strength. I have poured out my anger & frustration to him yet he still manages to give me such a welcoming smile when he sees me. Never ceases to please me. Ever ready to give me a hug. As much as I have resented being the only one responsible for him, I love him to bits.

I truly wish my life was less complicated. Wish I could just enjoy the simple things in life. Days I want to see how A has grown up & what he will become. Days I just don’t want to wake up at all.

I have made some new friends yet, have started to think they are not going to be around either. It is not them…I think it is me! As a friend told me, I am not ready to trust anyone any more. Been left stranded way too many times.

Times I just don’t know what I want. One thing though…no more getting hurt & being used.If it means I don’t trust people or be called rude – so be it. I am tired of feeling lost, sad & many times breaking down into tears, feeling defeated. I may not laugh or smile but I do not want to feel crushed.

I do not think time heals! I don’t even think it makes me feel numb over time…may be it is just me!??!

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Comments
  1. passionwriting says:

    so true words…they caught me everywhere…because sometimes i feel the same…is it just me..?
    thank you friend..u r not alone..!

  2. scorpria says:

    Uh!? Where did my comment go?

    Ok…so I was saying no, it is not just you. Time does not always heal, at least, not for everyone, not every wound. It is a generalisation I cannot agree with. Hugggggggggggsss. Stay strong; with A there, you can :)

  3. Archie says:

    * I start afresh yet again in a way tomorrow* this line is what I’m taking with me…

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